Most limits are temporary and mechanical. They appear, restrict briefly, and then lift. Occasionally, though, limits behave differently. That difference matters — not because it’s dramatic, but because it signals a mode change. How routine limits usually behave Temporary, caution-based limits tend to be: They feel frustrating, but they soften over time. How enforcement limits … Read more
One of the hardest things to accept is being limited after doing something that feels completely normal. People often say: In most cases, the behaviour was normal. What changed was the context around it. Systems don’t judge actions in isolation Online systems don’t evaluate single actions. They evaluate patterns over time. An action that’s harmless … Read more
Seeing a warning without a clear reason can feel more stressful than a hard block. People often think: In most cases, a warning is not a judgement. It’s a signal, not a conclusion. What warnings are designed to do Warnings exist to change behaviour early. They’re meant to say: “Something here is approaching a boundary.” … Read more
When an account limits what you can do, the first question is usually: “How long is this going to last?” In most cases, the answer is: Not as long as it feels. Most limits are designed to expire on their own. ⸻ Limits are timers, not decisions A temporary limit is rarely a judgement. It’s … Read more
Being suddenly unable to do something in an online account can feel alarming. People describe things like: It often feels like punishment. In most cases, it isn’t. What’s happening is usually behaviour throttling, not enforcement. What limits actually are Limits are not decisions about you. They are temporary constraints applied to behaviour. When a system … Read more